Holy Man Podcast - Episode 14 Special Guest Cale McCormick

Discussion Questions:

1. Ok, guys…be honest. Can you remember back when you first looked at something with some nudity?  How old were you?  How did it happen?  What emotions showed up?
2. On what level have you, or someone you know, struggled looking at porn? In what ways was it, or is it harmful?  If you presently have a habit of looking, can you think of any good reason why you should not stop looking right now?
3. Read Philippians 4:8 and Colossians 3:1-7 What does Paul have to say about what we look at on our TVs computers and phones?  What are some ways you men can work together to “put to death”(as Paul says) some of these struggles?
4. If you are presently married, are you hiding something from your wife, or have there been things in the past in which you have kept hidden from her? What harm is there in doing this?  What benefit is there in being transparent with her?  What would it look like to take that step of transparency?  If you are presently single, how important is it to your future wife for you to set up proper boundaries in regards to what you are presently looking at on your devices?
5. If you are a married man, do you think your wife enjoys sex with you? Do you care?  How would it go for you, if you asked her that question?  And, how would it go if you asked her what could make this part of your relationship better? Read Philippians 2:1-5  How does what Paul says here play out in our marriage sex life?  If both your wife and yourself lived out this passage within your sex life, how might it get better?